Your 15 minutes with Kaysar...

[Elizabeth]

Since Kaysar apparently never posts to his own forum, let's make up imaginary conversations we'd have with him if we actually could talk to him.

So let's pretend you get 15 minutes with Kaysar (yes, feel free to pretend it's a date). What would you talk to him about or say to him?

(Remember, 15 minutes only so choose your words carefully. Maybe Kaysar will come in a respond to some.)

I'll make my response a separate post...

[anii]

Only 15 minutes? If I'm honest, I'd be doing a whole lot of kissing and not much talking. This is our imagination, right?

As Elvis might say: 'A little less converstion and a little more action..'

[Elizabeth]

Since God and my relationship with God is a big part of my life and it strongly affects how I view the world around me and what's happening in the world, I would like to talk to Kaysar more about how his faith affects his life.

Many of us are aware that Muslims see Christians as the enemy but we (or maybe just I) don't understand the underlying reasons for this.

I'd like to better understand the situation and the history behind it and also learn what it's like to be Muslim in a predominantly Christian society.

And what Kaysar's views are on Christians and the Christian faith.

And if any time is left, to discuss the similarities of our faiths in addition to the differences.

[bigbrofan20657]

Being a guy I would probably ask him about Janelle alot. ;)

[Elizabeth]

Anii,

The whole kissing thing is kind of a given. The point of this topic is to give Kaysar something to talk with us about rather than just his favorite foods and career options.

This is your chance to ask him personal stuff to get to know him outside of the Big Brother shadow and superficial topics.

So think hard and come up with something you'd really like to know about him -- that is, after you're done kissing. ;)

[Kaysarlover]

Originally posted by anii
Only 15 minutes? If I'm honest, I'd be doing a whole lot of kissing and not much talking. This is our imagination, right?

As Elvis might say: 'A little less converstion and a little more action..'

Lmao :D cute ani, Kaysar is definetely kissable, but if we let our imagination really dig that deep... I know I would want the whoe package :P and I'll just leave it at that ~Jenna~

[karina]

Hrm... I don't know what I'd talk about during my 15 minutes with Kaysar. I'd probably just sit there drooling not knowing what to say. :D Kissing wouldn't be an option for me (unless hey, the bf is into that and wants to join in =P) but I'd definately like a big bear hug!

[Elizabeth]

Conversation, guys. Not what you'd like to do to him or with him. (We can all guess.)

If we give Kaysar some good topics of conversation he might come in here and discuss them.

He's very intelligent and highly analytical so I was thinking we could talk about his interests and views on world relations, his faith, core values, even economic issues and the like.

I also read where he's more interested in business development than graphic design. I'd love to know what kind of business he'd be interested in starting.

Really, if you were able to talk to him about anything outside of Big Brother, what would it be?

[Kaysarlover]

In all Honesty, I would touch with what Elizabeth said... Mostly, with him being Muslim could he be with a buxom blonde w/brains like ME...hehe, j/k...Seriously I would touch on the religion part... but, I would love to know what Fasinates him. Then go in depth with his passions...I would love to see his work. Kaysar is also a romantic *Leo* I would love to know a in-depth on Kaysar, like his sun,moon, etc...I also would like to know all the silly stuff too, I mean like what is your most embrassing moment? What means the most to him in his life? For me mostly, overall it would be what fasinates Kaysar that intrigues me more than anything...I love a Challenge and I don't like a easy read, and Kaysar would be a challenge he is a thinker, I admire that, that is rare in this world. ~Jenna~

[rpotestio]

I need more time. How can i prove my love for him in just 15 mins. Plus like someone else said how much kissing can possibly get done in a mere 15 mins


Originally posted by Elizabeth
Since Kaysar apparently never posts to his own forum, let's make up imaginary conversations we'd have with him if we actually could talk to him.

So let's pretend you get 15 minutes with Kaysar (yes, feel free to pretend it's a date). What would you talk to him about or say to him?

(Remember, 15 minutes only so choose your words carefully. Maybe Kaysar will come in a respond to some.)

I'll make my response a separate post...

[lostinks]

I also would like to know the answers to the questions Elizabeth and Jenna post.
Also I would like to know his real feelings for Janelle, if Michael wasn't in the pic..
I would like to know if he plans to go to Iraq.

[Elizabeth]

Okay for those of you concerned about the "ticking clock" I gave you, let's say all of you get 2 HOURS to roll around with Kaysar and show him all the love and affection you have for him. ;)

And then AFTER that, you might want to talk. So what would you most like to discuss with him...

(Again, if we give him interesting topics of conversation, we might actually get him to post something....)

[Elizabeth]

Forgot to say, but thanks for the laughs! It's been a rough week and I need a little diversion. You guys are funny.

It's like when I went to see my husband in Greece (back then we weren't married and I hadn't seen him for awhile as he had been living in SE Asia for months). People were like, "Oh, Greece, you can see the Acropolis and the Parthenon, and the..."

I was like, "Please. The only thing I want to see in Greece is just over 6 feet tall with dark hair..." ;)

[Kay]

I'm like Elizabeth. Relationship with God is important and first.

I have little understanding of the Muslim faith, but do know there are some similarities with the Christian faith. I ran across a websight that listed some of those, but didn't save it to fave list.
I didn't have the live feeds, so I would like to know what his views were that he shared in the house with others on politics and religion.

I'm not sure, but I think the reasons why Muslims see Christians as the enemy goes back many centuries to the times of the crusades in the Holy Land.
Years ago, my kids went to school with kids whose father was a Muslim. My understanding from their mother (non-Muslim) was that Muslims generally do not see honesty and sincerity in Christians. I think maybe that has something to do with it too.
Maybe he could shed more light on that subject.

[busterbear]

Well #1 let me say I would think it would only be polite to show up and actually respond to your fans. However I would think that at least for a bit he is probably more busy than we can imagine. He was and is the MOST loved HG of BB.

Ok that said I too would like to talk about his faith and beliefs. First of all I did not realize (ignorant as I apparently am) that muslims hate all christians and consider us ALL their enemies. So I guess I would really want to know why. I really didn't get the sense that Kaysar was prejudice against anyone. I may be wrong but I don't recall hearing Kaysar really diss anyone. I cancelled my feeds after he was evicted the 2nd time.

I would also like to ask him about his life. How he lives it what his hopes and dreams are for the future. He is so smart and analytical yet he is humble. I would like to know how he keeps so grounded. I just think he is a very interresting person and I think one would think of more things to discuss just talking with him. I have never seen someone who is so intelligent and fun at the same time. Most of the time people with extreme intelligence are boring as dirt. I would just love to know what are the things he enjoys discussing. Thanks for my 15 min. I think he is very hot but I already have a hot hubby so no need for making out for me.

[Kay]

Also would like to find out why and how his family came to this country and what their thoughts were after arriving. What it was like the first years for them and so forth.

[Elizabeth]

It's funny that race and religion is never an issue with me -- I've been around so much cultural diversity I never consider the differences in a negative connotation.

In fact, when I was in grad school I took a position with a woman working for a woman who was very active in the Jewish community.

I was utterly clueless on the Jewish faith. Kind of explained why her daughter was so thrilled when I allowed her to order a Meat Lover's pizza. Little did I know I committed about 4 major infractions with that call.

The mother was a force to be reckoned with and immediately when she met me she said very crisply. "So, I'm Jewish. You're a Christian. Is that going to be a problem?"

I was like, "Uh...I don't understand the question."

Really, if I didn't even understand what she was asking that should have been the first indication she might want to clue me in on the whole pork thing.

But other than that, we got along great and I learned A LOT about Judaism during that stay. :)

But it's strange to understand people killing each other because they have differing beliefs in a higher power. I think we could all benefit from a better understanding of the Muslim faith.

[Stacy]

Oh, guys, don't get upset with Kaysar because he hasn't posted yet. He's talked to us on Michael's forum and he's been busy doing things we hoped he'd do (like staying on a television show; doesn't matter what it is), so it's a bit harsh to criticize him for it. Besides, I know he's been out of the house for a few weeks now but he might still be catching up with family and friends.

Anyway, what would I want to discuss with Kaysar...hmm. Well, I'd stay away from politics because it would upset me (not because of his political beliefs, just because the political climate right now upsets me). I'm agnostic, and while I like to study various religions, I don't practice any. Honestly, I think the first thing to be would just be to get to know him on a personal level. It's easy to lose sight of reality and think that since we saw him be himself on a reality show that means we know a lot about him, but we don't really. I think the nicest and most informative conversations are the ones that just happen as people go along, not things that have been constructed. One minute you're talking about politics; the next you're talking about what you think your purpose in life is. So that's the sort of discussion I would like to have with Kaysar. I'd just like to get to know him as a person, and then through the process of that you begin to discover the things you're interested in anyway.

[Tickles]

I have two topics I'd like to discuss with him - actually, I'd just like a 15 minute soliloquy. I know that each would take much more than 15 minutes. But they are:

1. What does he think factored into him becoming the person he is (with all his wonderful qualities). Was it his parents influence, his religion, something else?

2. What has the experience of being on Big Brother been like. Not being in the house, but leaving the house, with all of the attention and acclaim that is coming his way. How is he handling it, what does he think of it, what's good about it, what's bad about it.

[anii]

Originally posted by Elizabeth
Anii,

The whole kissing thing is kind of a given. The point of this topic is to give Kaysar something to talk with us about rather than just his favorite foods and career options.

This is your chance to ask him personal stuff to get to know him outside of the Big Brother shadow and superficial topics.

So think hard and come up with something you'd really like to know about him -- that is, after you're done kissing. ;)

Elizabeth, I appreciate the idea. But I spent my 20s eating/breathing/sleeping religion and worrying too much about what the church thought about this or that, when I shoulda spent a lot more time kissing boys.

When I look at Kaysar I don't think about religious, cultural, or ethnic differences and disagreements, or topics for discussion. I think about kissing him.

That's my 15 minutes and I'm sticking to it.

[Lane]

Interesting topic Elizabeth. ;)

Yeah I do wonder when he'll post here...I've already sent him a message saying not to be afraid of his own site! *lol* :)

15 minutes huh? Well it would go by really fast I am sure...Since we're both in the graphics art field, we'd probably talk a whole lot about that...photoshop...design..stuff like that...ask what inspires him...if he listens to music while working...and what does he listen to...talk about travel...places he and I have been...talk of family...and wonderful upbringings...lots of joking around...laughter...and lots of photos taken of this wonderful time together too... ;) Just very innocent stuff...I'm sure he'd be asking lots of questions too...he would be seeing me for the first time whereas I'd been watching him for weeks and already have sort of idea of who he is and stuff... :)

That would be probably how it would go...just a very nice casual, and memorable experience. :)

And maybe....just maybe...he'll want more time with me ;)

[Elizabeth]

Well, Lane, after "your date," I hope you get a rose. ;)

[Lane]

Originally posted by Elizabeth
Well, Lane, after "your date," I hope you get a rose. ;)

oh god...I probably would turn as red as the rose too...that is for sure! :) The beautiful gesture would send me spinning! The whole experience would be "Just Like Heaven" ;)

[justme]

I would start with the basics, I would want to know how it felt for him when he left the BB house and learned he had so many fans. How has it effected his real life so far? I would like to know some personal stuff about him, What are his hobbies? What are his aspirations? What kind of music does he like? Does he want to get married and have kids (unfortunatly not to me, Im too old, already happily married with 2 kids...lol) but If he does plan on marriage does he want to marry a muslim or does faith not matter in his selection of a wife?

I have a definate interest in Islam and I would love to learn more about it. I would like to know what it was like for his family when they came to the US. I would like to know how he feels about the new Iraqi government, what is his take on it? Does he think Iraq can become a successful democratic nation? Will he ever return to Iraq? Even though he is against the war is he glad Suddam Hussain is not in power of Iraq anymore?

Kaysar is very intellectual and while I believe I am of average intelligence I might feel a little foolish talking to him..lol. I can hold an intelligent conversation but if I were sitting in a room with Kaysar I would probably revert back to my high school days and blubber all over the place. I would probably be distracted by his looks..hehe. If I had a blindfold on I could go on for hours talking to him. ;)

Hope to see you posting on her soon Kaysar. I understand you must be very busy right now and maybe you are limited in what you can say at least as far as BB. Your fans are waiting for you. :cool:

[LemonDrop]

If I had 15 minutes with him, I'd shake him really hard and ask him why he didn't kiss Janelle in the hammock! Janelle's his girl, Michael's not the one for her. Neither of them know that right now tho. :cool:

[lele89119]

I don't buy it for one second that a woman, with only 15 mins, would talk to Kaysar about religion. how could he answer all that in 15 mins. i would just stare into his eyes. the was he looks at people is so mesmerizing. that's a more honest response.:P

[alexandria]

I'd probably talk to him about his childhood, growing up in America as an immigrant, being Muslim, politics, etc.. we have a lot in common =) Then I'd ask him about living in Cali, because I've always wanted to live there.

[Kay]

You'd be surprised when asking the right questions how much you can learn in 15 minutes.

[philchel]

I would ask him if his religion dictates who he can be with (date, marry, etc) because I think that maybe he doesn't even consider anyone who is not muslim. Even if Michael was not in the picture with Janelle, I think his religion may guide him and that is why he said on Housecalls that it would never happen with the two of them.

[Kay]

Good point. I think he would be happier with a girl from his own religion/cultural background; someone who will respect him in the manner he deserves.

[kristleighd]

i think kaysar was the most intelligent in the group. he was very honest as well. to give up being head of household so jen could have a chance was very honorable. thank God she's off the show. plus he's very good looking, as we all know. i noticed him right off the bat. does he ever post here? i'm in his age group, you know!!!

[ShelBel]

I would be very interested to hear about his religion and lifestyle. I find other races, religion, etc interesting.

I think basically I would just want to here about HIM. Period. Anything he wants to tell me. ;)

[Kay]

Nothing like getting specific, so here are some questions, and depending on the answer, could be about 15 minutes, give or take.

1) What were the circumstances leading to your family coming to this country?

2) What were their first impressions?

3) Did they find it difficult to adjust to an entirely different culture?

4) You must have been about 5 or 6 when your family moved here. Do you have any memories of your homeleand?

5) What was elementary school like for you?

6) When going to college, did you do as so many others do: change your major?

Will come up for some on religion later and will post separately.

[STella668]

Kaysar, no matter where you stand politically, I think we might agree that the US's effect in the middle east has not been completely productive. If you got your wishlist, what would change HOW?

If that didn't use up the whole fifteen minutes (and I'd TRY to keep my lips zipped instead of going off on Bonsai and his idiocies and burning time I could spend listening to Kaysar), perhaps a good second question might be:

Imagine it's the end of your life, and the person who knows you best is speaking at your funeral. What would you most like that person, and the others present, to remember you for?

And yes, when I got the signal my time was up, you BET I'd ask for a hug, because it sure looks like Kaysar gives great hug, and at the end of the allotted time, he'd KNOW I had other things on my mind than hitting on his yummitude, though if he reads body language, he'd likely know I'd noticed it.

ST*

[Kay]

Anyone can go online or to the library and pick up information on the Muslim faith, some of which may not be accurate, or is information coming from people who think they’re experts. I personally think there is nothing like getting it first hand from someone who is Muslim.
Understand that I ask these questions because I would like to learn, as I said, first hand from someone who is Muslim. I don’t intend to offend; I consider myself fairly ignorant of the religion.
In case you do answer, thank you.

1) Everyone has a view of God and what He is like. Describe the Muslim view of God, who He is, what His personality is like.

2) A long time ago, I either heard or read that the Muslim concept of forgiveness (God’s extended to man/man to man) doesn’t exist or is different than the Christian view. Is this true, and if it is, is there a reason?

3) How many times a day does one pray? (I personally admire that quality) And is there a reason for this devotion?

4) Is the Muslim concept of salvation something earned, freely given, or something hoped for?

5) There are different Christian denominations with different beliefs. We hear on the news about Sunni and Shi’ite Muslims. How many different groups are there and what are some differences in their beliefs?

Again, many thanks.

[whatupkaysar]

I would probably pass out if I attempted to talk to him, if I did all I would say is "OHMYGOSH KAYSAR I LOVE YOU!!!!!" I can never act sane around people I'm obsessed with.

[Debookwrm]

I think I'd want to talk first about his foundation, which is assumed at this point to be his religious beliefs. I'm extremely interested in knowing what gives him the strength to remain true to himself and his beliefs.

I'd probably ask a BB question or two. Then I'd ask about Iraq. I would like to know...if not from his point of view his families, what keeps it in his heart. I would also like to know if he plans to return there, and if so under what circumstances.

Then I would wish him well in life and turn him over to the next interviewer. Not that you guys would give me the choice, right? :D

Deb

[Erin]

I would talk to him about the stuff he's passionate about, the stuff that he wants to speak to people about. So I would talk with him about his views on racism, prejudice, etc. because I'm sure it would turn out VERY interesting. So I'd ask his views about what's going on in our world today. (And ask him a little about BB as well)

[IowaGal1975]

I would definitely talk to him about faith, since I have none right now but desperatly want it back, in whatever form it is. I don't think he's some guru but I have a great deal of respect for anyone that has that much faith in their beliefs and it influenced me quite a bit.

[Debookwrm]

Originally posted by Debookwrm
I think I'd want to talk first about his foundation, which is assumed at this point to be his religious beliefs. I'm extremely interested in knowing what gives him the strength to remain true to himself and his beliefs.

I'd probably ask a BB question or two. Then I'd ask about Iraq. I would like to know...if not from his point of view his families, what keeps it in his heart. I would also like to know if he plans to return there, and if so under what circumstances.

Then I would wish him well in life and turn him over to the next interviewer. Not that you guys would give me the choice, right? :D

Deb

Of course that is only if I could form coherent sentances at all during the 15 minutes. LOL

Deb

[teebrd05]

I think i would just look and listen.Whatever he wanted to do, even if he just wanted to sit quietly that would be fine with me.:)

[Honeybeebaby]

Kaysar,
What Accomplishments in your Life are you most proud of and why?
Who has had the greatest Impact on you, and in what ways?

[aXorb]

Oh you all are going to hate me. In the hours I spend hanging out with kaysar every week (usually late at night) it's usually BB6 talk or talk about what he wants to do with a career. He has been really busy trying to keep working in TV or get into some sort of media.

Also we play chess, smoke Huka, and goof off. Very little talk of politics or religion.

[IowaGal1975]

Why would we hate you Dan? Lol, if someone spent all their time talking about serious stuff, my god, I shudder to think what they'd be....but hey, we're only talking about 15 minutes....;)

Now, how are 'dem bunnies?

[Winter80-sara]

Do you talk about how crazy us women are in here?lol

[blueeyesdebbie22]

Originally posted by aXorb
Oh you all are going to hate me. In the hours I spend hanging out with kaysar every week (usually late at night) it's usually BB6 talk or talk about what he wants to do with a career. He has been really busy trying to keep working in TV or get into some sort of media.

Also we play chess, smoke Huka, and goof off. Very little talk of politics or religion.

Damn it now you both deserve a good spanking. Hours you say??? hmmmm he should be posting something to this starved little monkey here.:)

[Eppii]

uh oh, he's turning hollywood.:)

[Debookwrm]

Originally posted by aXorb
Oh you all are going to hate me. In the hours I spend hanging out with kaysar every week (usually late at night) it's usually BB6 talk or talk about what he wants to do with a career. He has been really busy trying to keep working in TV or get into some sort of media.

Also we play chess, smoke Huka, and goof off. Very little talk of politics or religion.

Don't hate you, not jealous. Happy that you have each other to talk to.

Deb

[Lala]

Originally posted by Elizabeth
Since Kaysar apparently never posts to his own forum, let's make up imaginary conversations we'd have with him if we actually could talk to him.


The first thing I would want to ask him is why he doesn't spend more time in his own forum? There are a LOT of really cool people here, and I think he is missing out on something good that he created.

I have to hand it to you, Elizabeth, because you started the sticky thread that asked for questions for Kaysar back in September and I don't think he has answered one question yet. Your persistence is admirable.

I know, I know he's very busy. We all are. I'm not slamming the guy, I just think he should spend some time here and give everyone a thrill.

[OHBOY!!]

im sure i would talk about whatever came to mind. i wouldnt go in like it was an interview. just simply talking........

[Winter80-sara]

Id prob be nervous and let him talk first. Then id just go with the flow.

[Eppii]

On a serious note, i'm also a devout Christian. My story is quite different. I was brought up in a non- religious family so I didn't really focus on any religion, but one of my friends invited me to church so I went just for the heck of it. To make the long story short, I received God's love and grace right then and there and it was the most unbelievable experience I had in my entire life. To be honest I don't think I would be a strong Christian if I didn't experiecne His love. But ever since, God is priority in my life. And my question to Kaysar is has he also experience the similar experience I had since he is a very devout Muslim.

[nattalie74]

Kaysar what did you enjoy eating the most while you were in the BB House? Are you planning anymore tv shows for the future? What is one thing you like about all your fans?