Is Kaysar falling for Erika?

[Lala]

I've been away so I have been trying to get caught up on BB7, and it seems like Kaysar and Erika are quite close. I just watched a video of a heart-to-heart chat they had about her recent break-up with her boyfriend, and Kaysar was very attentive.

I've also seen quite a few screen caps that show the two of them next to each other. The clincher was a transcript of a conversation with Danielle (I think) in which Kayser tells her that he would marry a non-muslim woman AND that he is interested in someone in the house.

This seems like a revelation to me, and I did not see it posted anywhere else so here it is.

Anyone else picking up on this possible romance?:cheering:

[Kaysar_luv]

YES!!!!!!!!! I SOOOO AGREE THAT kaysar has a thing for erika, he has been around her A LOT! and im JEALOUS! LOL.... thats cool thought she seems like a good person and shes pretty!

[flowerpower]

KAYSAR DOESN'T HAVE A THING FOR ERIKA,

THE PLAN THAT HOWIE, JANIE, KAYSAR & JAMES HAVE:
HOWIE WORK ON CHICKEN GEORGE
KAYSAR WORK ON ERIKA & DANIELLE
JANIE WORK ON JASE & MARCELLAS
JAMES WORK ON OTHERS

EVERYNIGHT OR MORNING HOWIE, KAYSAR & JANIE TALK STRAGEDY & SEE WHO IS WITH THEM. THEY THINK ERIKA, MARCELLAS & DANIELLE WILL BE WITH THEM, SO THEY HAVE TO BE KEPT CLOSE TO THEM.

[lavonne]

Apparently not, Erika just went into the Love/Hate room and asked Marcellas if he was on board with breaking up "The 6" :(

[You'reSOfoxy]

I really think she has a thing for him. I started to notice this when they were playing pool, and she's always next to him. But, she is on the re-bound so maybe she's just trying to deal with her break-up. But I did think it was funny when they were in the kitchen at like 2 am, they were talkin about food, then all of a sudden ericka says "have u ever been in love kaysar?" So i definatly think she likes him. Cant wait to see how BB edits them. They are probably gonna make it look like they are having a "showmance" :D

[chalbert]

lol I was the one who asked him at Jokers if his wife would have to be Muslim! Kaysar if you read this, your answer was interesting & surprising. I would've thought you'd want your wife to be of the same faith as you. anyhoo I don't know about Erika. I like her, I really do, but frankly I'd rather just watch the game. no need for romance. I asked Erika what she thought of Kaysar. she didn't seem to be any more interested in him than anyone else. I hope she's not playing Kaysar. I don't want BB1 Josh (her ex) to go after Kaysar! he's chatting @ jokersupdates.com tomorrow 7/11 10ET/7PT. she said she doesn't know if Josh will watch the show.

I feel SO SO WEIRD talking about this knowing Kaysar will come back and might/possibly/probably read this.. Kaysar what an odd feeling this must be.

o and this has been driving me batty - what does "showmance" mean? I take it it has to do w/romance.. romance on a show?

Kaysar_luv, your pug is too cute! I think I will have to get one in the future! the other day at the beach I saw 2 wearing little hats - one a cowboy hat, the other a visor :love

[Tickles]

NO!!!!!

For the love of Kaysar, nip this one in the bud. There is no romance. They're friends. Just like he is with Janelle. Quit trying to hook the poor guy up with every woman he comes across, and appears to have a good relationship with. It's got to be so stifling for him.

Personally, I'd say if you want him to hang around here in the future, you'll let him have as much of a private life as you can. He seems like such a private person, anyway, he can't be comfortable with the public speculation.
And yes, they're all playing a game. Who knows who will ultimately be aligned with whom. But at this point, Marcellas & Erika are with Kaysar. The fact that all four of the BB6 guys are there puts an extra-large target on their back. And of their allies. Marcellas & Erika have said they want to remain with Kaysar & Janelle ... and would like Howie & James out of the picture. That's not likely to happen soon - why would they give up numbers at this point. But at some point, they will. Just like Marcellas & Janelle would like Erika out of the game, because she's an Amber. But for now, they're aligned. It seems pretty apparent to me that, until something changes, Marcellas is working towards a Kaysar-Marcellas-Janelle final 3.

[Shelley]

Kaysar is just being friendly to EriKa. Erika and Josh (from BB1) recently broke up. Josh lives in Miami and Erika in LA. Kaysar was making polite converstion, and being nice to listen to her about the break up. We all would listen in the same situation. Erika is 37 years old. Kaysar is 25. kaysar wants to settle down and have lots of children. I don't think that is on Erika's plan right now. I met Eika and Josh recently and they both are really fun people. But we also know that Kaysar is a very private person and I think discussing something that is not there is just not right.

[quendiva26]

Are you guys serious? I know he is a very private man. He told me that in person actually. BUT he is on a TV SHOW with 24/7 live feed coverage and we are NOT supposed to speculate about the relationships he forms in the house? The show, and the game, is ALL ABOUT relationships!

Do I think they will end up together? No - mainly for the reasons Shelly stated. Do I think they could flirt with each other in order to manipulate and may even end up genuinely liking one another? Sure, why not!? Do I think Erika, Marcy, OR George will be loyal to the Sovs? Um, no! I'm not even convinced yet that the Sovs will be loyal to one another! lol

Just my opinion, but speculating is fine. Kaysar also told me in person that he doesn't take ANYTHING too seriously anymore. So I'm sure IF he ever read the speculating, and that is a HUGE 'if', since he'll likely be too busy when he gets out of the house to read posts from three months ago - LOL - he won't have a problem with it. Speculation about relationships IS Big Brother. :D

[Nadirah]

Two nights ago, Kaysar had a long talk with Danielle about various topics. One of the observations Kaysar made was that he and Danielle both seem outwardly friendly and personable, but internally they are almost introverts.

He talked with Danielle, as he has with a couple of others, about finding that person with whom he can make a life and raise a family. He is thinking he is getting older now and is feeling the pressure to settle down. His description of the type of person he is seeking was just as he has described here.

That same night he talked with Erika about Josh, and I didn't think he was being anything other than a kind listener. I didn't feel anything strange there at all, but the houseguests keep commenting on "Kaysar and Erika" - similar to comments last year to "Kaysar and Janie". Kaysar's faith and commitment to his religious principles seem to keep him firmly grounded. Insha'allah, he will be fine.

I know Kaysar takes some hits from other Muslims, but I relate to him in the way he approaches public life. Any of us who work among people who are not Muslims interact just as Kaysar does. Other BB7'ers know he prays, he doesn't drink, he eats halal food, he remains chaste until marriage, etc. He answers seriously any questions people ask about Islam. They must respect him on some level. It seems that people wanted to start out criticizing him when they entered the house, but they aren't finding much to criticize...he is as nice and centered as he has been depicted.

A couple of other things Danielle and Kaysar talked about showed how Kaysar thinks about things: they were talking about the wrap party of BB6, and Kaysar said he was held in one spot for over 4 hours. He said that no one ever teaches them about the rules of etiquette for situations like that: how long do you talk with each person, how do you disengage from one person to speak to the next without seeming rude or hurting someone, etc.

They talked about some group going to Las Vegas and how out of it they felt. Danielle was feeling sleepy at an early hour and wanted to go to the room to sleep. Kaysar wanted to escape so he could make his prayers and seek forgiveness, because he was worried about going to hell (apparently there were some not fully clothed dancers).

Like Connie, I would be very proud to have a son carry himself as Kaysar does. May Allah protect him and bless him.

[tweety_kiss]

I notice that he is very secretive about the women in his life like I don't know which site this was where I read a chat log but he stated in that interview when they asked him " Area you in a relationship" he answered "no comment" so we are left to take it for what it is worth....I always took Kaysar for being very secretive....I mean just look at his blog and see how he discloses very little....I read more blogs on the Internet than anything since I am a professional blogger and I have to say that his blog is the most enigmatic of all blogs I have read....

Now my take on the Erika/Kaysar thing is this; he had his own strategy and he knows he needs to weed quite a few out first before he works on his own team so he just may be trying to find out what Erika is planning and how to play her gamewise...after he did say that he will not disclose stratagies this time around since he learned a very hard lesson last year and I like that he is keeping to his word and not disclosing anything....Erika; I am sure may also have something up her sleeve and I read her bio just to get t a feel of her and yes I am impressed with what her background is...now while I admit they would make a very good couple, they are in a game and that is what is on their minds right now.....

Now maybe I am just grasping at straws here.....I just posted what I think is going on....

[anii]

Are you guys serious? I know he is a very private man. He told me that in person actually. BUT he is on a TV SHOW with 24/7 live feed coverage and we are NOT supposed to speculate about the relationships he forms in the house? The show, and the game, is ALL ABOUT relationships!

Do I think they will end up together? No - mainly for the reasons Shelly stated. Do I think they could flirt with each other in order to manipulate and may even end up genuinely liking one another? Sure, why not!? Do I think Erika, Marcy, OR George will be loyal to the Sovs? Um, no! I'm not even convinced yet that the Sovs will be loyal to one another! lol

Just my opinion, but speculating is fine. Kaysar also told me in person that he doesn't take ANYTHING too seriously anymore. So I'm sure IF he ever read the speculating, and that is a HUGE 'if', since he'll likely be too busy when he gets out of the house to read posts from three months ago - LOL - he won't have a problem with it. Speculation about relationships IS Big Brother. :D

ITA Laura. Lighten up guys. I think K knows us all (if not in person at least on the forum) well enough by now to know that IF we speculate about what goes on in the house during BB7, it's in the spirit of fun and goodwill. We've "got his back" so to speak.

For myself, going back to the original question, I think Erika's got a crush on K - you can tell by her body language. He may or may not be interested, working her for the team, or just being the decent guy he is. He's much harder to read; that's one of the things we love about him.

One thing to consider is personality type - similar types are naturally drawn to and "get" each other. They connect quickly, easily and appear to outsiders to "click." This is just my opinion, but I've "typed" Dani as ENFP, Kaysar as INFJ, and Erika as INFP. As far as I can tell, they are the only NFs in the house (with Nakomis as another possibility). If you've noticed, Dani/Kay/Erika have appeared to naturally gravitate toward each other.

From the boards I understand they've all known each other for almost a year now, so given their prior relationship and the possibility that they share functional preferences (NF), any perceived affinity shouldn't be a surprise.

Plus it's just plain fun to speculate about flirations/showmances. At least until something more dramatic happens in that house, this is all we've got. Cut us some slack here.

:)

[Winter80-sara]

If they like each other. I say go for it. ;) If not for that then to get further in the game lol.

[anii]

I really think she has a thing for him. I started to notice this when they were playing pool, and she's always next to him. But, she is on the re-bound so maybe she's just trying to deal with her break-up. But I did think it was funny when they were in the kitchen at like 2 am, they were talkin about food, then all of a sudden ericka says "have u ever been in love kaysar?" So i definatly think she likes him. Cant wait to see how BB edits them. They are probably gonna make it look like they are having a "showmance" :D

I agree... I think she's attracted to him and is trying not to be... watch her body language... her eyes betray the "yes" while her arms and legs (crossing) fight to say "no."

:D

[KaysarsLisa]

No he doesn't have a thing for her, but I do think he still has one for Janie inspite of what he will admit. I saw it in his eyes last year, so if he did say that he has a thing for smeone in the house then it's her. Erika is a friend and she said yesterday that he's a nice guy but she prefers someone with more experience (handling women that is). The woman is in her mid-thirties and has been where he's trying to go. :D

[wgm]

I think that it's Janie too and I think that she has feelings for him too.

[gbemi]

Speaking of Janie, I kinda feel she was kinda of jealous that Erica and Kaysar were spending a lot of time together. Does anyone feel the same way? I know she mentioned it to him. She was like have you been spending a lot of time with Erica, and I was like why would she ask that question? Maybe there is something between Kaysar and Janie after all.

[quendiva26]

Speaking of Janie, I kinda feel she was kinda of jealous that Erica and Kaysar were spending a lot of time together. Does anyone feel the same way? I know she mentioned it to him. She was like have you been spending a lot of time with Erica, and I was like why would she ask that question? Maybe there is something between Kaysar and Janie after all.

Or maybe he is SUPPOSED to spend a lot of time with her in order to pull her over to thier side? ;)

[gbemi]

No I don't think that is what she meant cause they were talking and someone said something about not being able to talk to Kaysar cause he was always with Erica and she seemed kinda upset that he seemed to hanging out with Erica a lot. So when she met him later on she was like have you been hanging out with Erica a lot and he was like yeah, I was just being friendly. She didn't seem to happy about it, seemed like a bit of jealousy to me.

[quendiva26]

I wouldn't be surprised if there was a bit of reverse janellousy going on there! ;) Hope it doesn't cause a rift in the alliance. Hey Janie - just start flirting with Boogie and I think Kaysar will spend less time with Erika! ;)

[Jacki]

kayser and erica. ye right.
think before you post crap like that

[Sherry]

He seems to just be friends with her. I really think Kaysar still has eyes for Janelle.

[Taelyn]

If Kaysar has feelings for any woman in that house it is Janie.

I can totally understand why he would keep it secret , even from us, afterall , He knew ALLstars was coming and that they would both be there and HUGE targets.
How awful would it have been if he had ever admitted to having feelings for her.

Now Im not saying there is any romantic feelings there, he has denied it and I respect that. But I do find his comment about going to Florida after the show kinda interesting.

We will all just have to wait and see.
but they are DEFINATELY tightly alligned in this game.

[Kerie]

Whatever his preferences, I think he's smart enough to wait until after the show ends to do anything about it. How many relationships have started on a show like this, and actually worked out? I don't know of any.

If he is just friends with Janelle as he has said, it doesn't mean they're won't be something romantic in their future. I've been married for several years now to someone who started out as just a good friend.

But I like the speculation. ;)

[KaysarsLisa]

Yeah he did say that he was going to Florida after the show and he also mentioned that it's because he likes (romantically) someone living there. Go Kaysar! :P Lmao! :cheers:

[Ya Barr]

No I don't think that is what she meant cause they were talking and someone said something about not being able to talk to Kaysar cause he was always with Erica and she seemed kinda upset that he seemed to hanging out with Erica a lot. So when she met him later on she was like have you been hanging out with Erica a lot and he was like yeah, I was just being friendly. She didn't seem to happy about it, seemed like a bit of jealousy to me.


Maybe Janie is afraid Erika may be get some valuable info out of Kaysar or that Kaysar may be forming his own alliance on the side. Since the BB6 have an alliance I would want to know why he's spending so much time with someone.

Linda

[anii]

I think that it's Janie too and I think that she has feelings for him too.

Really? What makes you say that? I'm very curious to hear the clues about Janie... because last night when they were "cramming" for the next competition (they suspect it will be questions) with Marcie and Hairika, Janie seemed almost irritated with Kaysar because he wasn't keeping up with the memorization drills.

[quendiva26]

Yeah he did say that he was going to Florida after the show and he also mentioned that it's because he likes (romantically) someone living there. Go Kaysar! :P Lmao! :cheers:

Hey I live in Florida! LOL! J/K! :P (Well, not about living there though! lol) He told James that he misses 'a good friend' in particular. I bet he has a 'girlfriend' outside of the house. Besides, I think Erika still wants Josh. And truthfully Kaysar doesn't make enough money for Janie yet! ;) lol

Maybe I can get him a speaking gig here in O-town like he and I had discussed before and he can come here for business AND pleasure! :D

[Molly]

LOL. No. I believe he stated that he was interested in someone outside of the house, not in it. He probably thinks both Erika and Janie are attractive, but it's becoming clear to me that he is not interested romantically in either of them. And this is coming from a huge Kaysar and Janie fan who would have loved to see them together.

[Molly]

Speaking of Janie, I kinda feel she was kinda of jealous that Erica and Kaysar were spending a lot of time together. Does anyone feel the same way? I know she mentioned it to him. She was like have you been spending a lot of time with Erica, and I was like why would she ask that question? Maybe there is something between Kaysar and Janie after all.

It seemed that way to me too. Marcellas asked if it would she would be with him (Marci) or Kaysar in the final two and she said Marci-because Kaysar won't even talk to her and he was hanging around with Erika all the time, and it really seemed to bug her. I think Kaysar has stayed away from Janelle to prove a point. That he doesnt have a crush on her etc..But he probablly didnt realize that everyone would speculate on him and Erika. lol

I definitely go back and forth as to whether he likes Janelle or not.

[chalbert]

For the love of Kaysar, nip this one in the bud. There is no romance. They're friends. Just like he is with Janelle. Quit trying to hook the poor guy up with every woman he comes across, and appears to have a good relationship with. It's got to be so stifling for him.

Personally, I'd say if you want him to hang around here in the future, you'll let him have as much of a private life as you can. He seems like such a private person, anyway, he can't be comfortable with the public speculation
I agree. a little speculation's fine, but be aware of what you're saying and that it may be harmless to you but may not be to others. I'm sorta starting to feel like this is Harry Potter and there is some shipping going on. and it is NOT a good feeling. these are real people, folks.

they were talking about the wrap party of BB6, and Kaysar said he was held in one spot for over 4 hours. He said that no one ever teaches them about the rules of etiquette for situations like that: how long do you talk with each person, how do you disengage from one person to speak to the next without seeming rude or hurting someone, etc
what is this about? was it a meet & greet or something? held in 1 spot for what? I'm glad he wondered about that, that's the sorta thing I'd care about too.

also, Nadirah can you or someone tell me what Kay & Dani said about BB3 and integrity? I read a bit on feeds that they talked about it. o and random: your bday is the day after mine :)

I do think Kay & Erika are just friends. for the record at Josh's Jokers chat, he said they were broken up and she's free to see whomever she pleases. but Josh made it very clear that he is still very much in love with Erika. and maybe they will get back together one day. he said all these wonderful sweet things about her. muy heartfelt. he said she wanted him to be the last person she saw before entering the house, and he said no matter what happened on the show, no matter what she did, he'd be there for her when she got outta the house. just read his transcript. they seem very much in love to me.

I know some of you say it's all in good fun, but at whose expense? and this goes for the Janie comments too. whatever feelings he may or may not have, they're his to keep and keep private. dude, Janie could read this. everyone needs to respect that. oh and I'm not trying to condemn any of you when I say what I say. these are just my particular thoughts on it. a general thing. so don't take any of what I say personally :)

I will say this. I've met some famous people. not Kaysar though. every single time I meet one, the most powerful observation I come away with is this: they are PEOPLE. just like you & me. they have feelings. they CARE. they are not some character. which is why I don't really understand Real Person Roleplay, or whatever, but that's for another day. what you say can & will affect them. treat them like they're human because they are. would you do this sort of thing with your real life friends? to this degree?

treat Kaysar like you'd treat your friend. remember that he is indeed very real. I think some of you don't even realize the kind of harm you may be doing by all the speculating. it may not bother Kaysar but what if it does? and it may not bother him too much but how would you feel if it were you? I certainly would not appreciate it. I'm private enough as it is, it'd drive me nuts to see people wondering if I had feelings for so & so, analyzing every move. a little speculation may be fine, just don't go overboard about it. Kaysar's site, of ALL places, should be one that respects his privacy and not have too too much speculation. after all he does read some of the threads.

anyhoo Kaysar if this is no big deal to you just let us know. I suspect it does have somewhat of an effect on you though. I read on feeds about you & James talking about how because of BB, some people think they know you when they don't. I don't know if you were talking about us, or whatever, but you strike me as the type of person who would care about us speculating, and if it got to be too much, it'd bother you. which is absolutely fine because I'd feel the same way. frankly I'd be worried if it didn't affect you at all. so yea if this doesn't bother you as much as I'd suspect, know that I only worry because I truly care about you, Kaysar. yeah, there's my two pence :)

[Shelley]

chalbert, you wrote an excellent post. Kaysar IS a private person, and all this discussion would embarass him. I have discussed this with him on various occassions. Yes, because he is on TV he is a public person. But I also think that since this is his board that we should respect him and his feelings. Enough said.

[Kerie]

I think Kaysar has stayed away from Janelle to prove a point. That he doesnt have a crush on her etc..But he probablly didnt realize that everyone would speculate on him and Erika. lol
I think he stays away to try and give the impression that the Season 6 people are not an alliance. From day 1, they've been targets, and they know it. Even Janie is telling people or trying to convince people they are not an alliance. I've seen or read about how Howie, James, and Janie tell others they are not alligned...but not Kayser yet. Maybe Kayser is just trying to show it through actions, like not hanging around them as much.

But I did read somewhere that they get together still or manage to, to discuss things. Maybe Janie saying that is another ploy to convince others they are not an alliance. That her and Kayser are not closely aligned as they were last year.

Thats a good strategy in my opinion. So many are targetting them...they need to give the others a reason not to go after them one by one.

[Kerie]

Oh, I agree about the Harry Potter character romance speculations. Or "shipping"...is that a European or British term/slang? ;) I'm learning a few new slang words from those books....like...'snogging'. lol How did they come up with "snogging"? :) Ok off topic.

Back to topic...with Harry Potter its all speculation on the characters. Not the actors themselves. Thats different. It can't bug the actors as much, because they can disaccoiate themselves from the characters. They are not the characters of course.

On this board and speculation about who Kayser is romantically interested in? I agree, its different and should be treated differently. But then again, will he even check the forum posts this far back by the time he's out?

Maybe, maybe not. But there's still a chance he will...and there's always a chance people will continue all their speculations when he is out and has time to view the boards. So starting to think-before-you-post now, is still a good idea.

[teesha92]

Um...

[Wolf_P]

Yes these thoughts people are having about Kaysar hooking up is silly.
Hes on a "reality" tv game show -
Forming relationships to help him strategize his next moves to try and win the "game"

One never really knows another in these types of shows and you certainly cant tell by a few conversations - I dont know this intelligent player personally but I would say that the big brother reality game show is not wheres hes looking for love.

I would imagine, he would put his whole heart and a lot of thought into whom he chooses for a life partner- and keep that part of his life as private as it can be. One can not do that when they are trying to play a game for half a mill - he is there to play the game that is all.

Match makers- Give the guy a break ! :rant:

[KarenG]

Ladies, could YOU be living in a house with Kaysar and not be attracted to him??? :P He is a very attractive man and Erika, I am sure, is responding to that. But it doesn't mean anything. We have all been attracted to someone and then didn't do anything about it, right? :D

I am sure Janie and Kaysar are also attracted to each other, but I think Kaysar is pretty smart about not putting himself in situations that could end up being interpreted badly. He is pretty careful about his reputation, I think.

[ke0na]

Two nights ago, Kaysar had a long talk with Danielle about various topics. One of the observations Kaysar made was that he and Danielle both seem outwardly friendly and personable, but internally they are almost introverts.

He talked with Danielle, as he has with a couple of others, about finding that person with whom he can make a life and raise a family. He is thinking he is getting older now and is feeling the pressure to settle down. His description of the type of person he is seeking was just as he has described here.

That same night he talked with Erika about Josh, and I didn't think he was being anything other than a kind listener. I didn't feel anything strange there at all, but the houseguests keep commenting on "Kaysar and Erika" - similar to comments last year to "Kaysar and Janie". Kaysar's faith and commitment to his religious principles seem to keep him firmly grounded. Insha'allah, he will be fine.

I know Kaysar takes some hits from other Muslims, but I relate to him in the way he approaches public life. Any of us who work among people who are not Muslims interact just as Kaysar does. Other BB7'ers know he prays, he doesn't drink, he eats halal food, he remains chaste until marriage, etc. He answers seriously any questions people ask about Islam. They must respect him on some level. It seems that people wanted to start out criticizing him when they entered the house, but they aren't finding much to criticize...he is as nice and centered as he has been depicted.

A couple of other things Danielle and Kaysar talked about showed how Kaysar thinks about things: they were talking about the wrap party of BB6, and Kaysar said he was held in one spot for over 4 hours. He said that no one ever teaches them about the rules of etiquette for situations like that: how long do you talk with each person, how do you disengage from one person to speak to the next without seeming rude or hurting someone, etc.

They talked about some group going to Las Vegas and how out of it they felt. Danielle was feeling sleepy at an early hour and wanted to go to the room to sleep. Kaysar wanted to escape so he could make his prayers and seek forgiveness, because he was worried about going to hell (apparently there were some not fully clothed dancers).

Like Connie, I would be very proud to have a son carry himself as Kaysar does. May Allah protect him and bless him.


I really appreciate what you have to say here. It's always nice to learn new ways of looking at certain situations, such as Kaysars. I am not muslim, but I do understand the do's and don'ts of each faith. I commend Kaysar for sticking to his beliefs.

[didi]

Me too i think is Janelle, when Kaysar want to talk to Janelle alone Howie enter the room, Kaysar want to be alone with her! :)